There’s a trend against navel-gazing in NLP. Many people like to say things like “I’m too busy actually doing it”.
On the surface it sounds like those people have taken on the spirit of NLP – the “get stuck in” attitude – but I think it’s also a massive limitation. The reason doctors are encouraged to send people for Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) is largely that the leaders of that field took time to build a public face, to clarify the issues, to address the ethics, to reassure and to educate – and to schmooze.
Now CBT practitioners really do get stuck in. I was talking to a business consultant for the Department of Health earlier and he reckons the budget for CBT referrals will double by 2011, and it’s already tens of millions. That opens a lot of doors for a lot of people to move beyond their stuck state and enjoy personal freedom.
NLP is more than a therapeutic model, but it’s still very useful as a basis for making therapeutic changes – and for teaching people to use their own brain.
I honestly believe a good NLPer can do more in a session than a good CBTer, using the skills of their field, but I also agree with the DoH that we haven’t earned our place at the table. We simply aren’t very credible.
It’s like we want to keep our secrets to ourselves. Yes, we may shout a lot. We may even have neon flashing lights. But our field is fundamentally positioned in a way that means the vast majority of people think we’re a bit simple, and it’s a bit like discovering a cure for cancer and then telling fart jokes when people ask you to explain it.
I think we can learn a lot from CBT – a field that has less to offer, but offers more.
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